Over the past few years, solo travel has had a serious glow-up. What once seemed like a bold, unconventional move is now a coveted rite of passage, especially with icons like Tracee Ellis Ross showing us how it’s done on her new Roku series Solo Traveling with Tracee Ellis Ross. Whether you’re escaping the chaos, celebrating yourself, or simply craving a change of scenery, there’s something incredibly empowering about booking a trip for you and only you.

But let’s keep it real: diving into solo travel can feel intimidating at first. Where do you go? Will you feel safe? Will you get lonely? And how do you take those fire travel photos without a personal photographer?
If you’re solo-curious but not sure where to begin, don’t worry I’ve got you. Here are five beginner-friendly ways to pop your solo travel cherry (and actually enjoy it):

1. Start With a Staycation
First things first: do you even like hanging out with yourself? Solo travel isn’t just about the destination—it’s about being comfortable in your own company. Before hopping on a flight, try booking a weekend at a luxe hotel in your city or treat yourself to a full-day spa experience. Order room service, lounge in a robe, and discover how delicious a quiet dinner for one can be. If you can master the art of the staycation, you’re already halfway there.

2. Go Where You’re Already Comfortable
My first solo trip was actually a hybrid adventure. I started with friends in Europe, then spent a few solo days in Italy. By the time I got to Venice, I felt confident navigating on my own. If international travel feels overwhelming, start smaller. There’s no shame in staying domestic. The U.S. is packed with vibrant cities, natural wonders, and dreamy resorts perfect for easing into solo travel—with no passport stress required.

3. Try a Curated Group Trip
Solo travel doesn’t always mean completely solo. Travel groups designed for specific communities (like Black women, creatives, or luxury seekers) offer the perfect mix of independence and built-in support. Companies like The Black Travel Experience, curate stunning itineraries that let you show up, vibe out, and meet like-minded travelers—no spreadsheets or planning required.


4. Do Your Research (and Then Some)
Google is your bestie. Social media is your mood board. And TripAdvisor is your unofficial therapist. Before booking anything, do a deep dive into your destination. Is it safe for solo travelers? What are the cultural norms? Is there reliable transportation? This is especially crucial if you’re a woman—and even more so if you’re a Black woman. Join travel Facebook groups, read recent reviews, and check local advisories. Safety should never be a postscript.

5. Plan for Both Spontaneity and Structure
One of the perks of solo travel is the freedom to wake up and do whatever you want. But let’s be clear: a loose itinerary will save your trip. Book key things in advance—like lodging, major attractions, and transportation—but leave room for spontaneous detours and local gems. Think of your plan as a chic skeleton: solid enough to keep you grounded, but flexible enough to dance.

Final Thoughts: You’re Not Alone—Even When You Are
Solo travel isn’t about being alone. It’s about reconnecting with yourself, challenging your comfort zone, and making space for magic. The first trip might feel nerve-wracking, but that mix of nerves and excitement? That’s how you know it’s worth it.

So go ahead romanticize your life, book the flight, and make memories you don’t need permission for. Trust me, once you go solo… you’ll wonder why you waited so long.